Hunting for the truth

Okay, now I realize how utterly stupid I was to trust this Fireman/EMT, Sunday School teacher who lives with a State trooper.

I am thinking about all the things he has told me.

"I work for Life Saver part time flying in a helicopter" " I worked there years ago and flew all over the world transporting people" FALSE I called and they have never heard of him. His first wife said she knew nothing of the sort.

He told me he had a doctor at a hospital let him cut someones chest open, bones and all.

I called his first wife, she is a nurse. She was very friendly to me. She tells me " He will steal your money and cheat on you." I believe this. He apparently took thousands of dollars for an insurance settlement she got on her daughter. He cheated with the insurance lady.

The insurance lady.... well, she filed a small claims against him to retrieve money he took from her.

The real estate lady. I spoke to her on the phone and via email. He tried to force himself on her.. she couldn't show up for closing on the house.

He sold vehicles.. apparently sold the same title to more than one person.

A young woman that owns a local business. I was told he was seeing her and he denied it. I called her and she very nice and spoke to me. He had been seeing her for quite some time while he wa married. She told me she went to the station and "did things" with him when he was on duty. He told me the woman was heavy with red hair and buck teeth and if I saw her I would know that he would have not messed with her. He swore he NEVER touched her, but only sent her text messaged. He has now admitted it to a few people. He also called her mom. He called her and threatened to turn over a tape to her ex husband to affect her custody if she didn't keep her mouth shut about seeing him. (I have not met her and do not know what she really looks like, but her looks are irrelevant)

The girl at the phone store. Been in prison, on probation. Was told he was seeing her too. He claims "NO, she weighs 300 lbs with tatoos, she is only my friend" Odd, he was at that store for hours on end and $2,000 came up missing. They say it was an inside job and someone had a key to get in.

The woman that just moved from out of state... tried to force himself on her and scared her. She told him to quit calling and he asked for a picture of her "pretty pink thing". She finally changed her number. She was another woman with 3 kids, had been over weight and had gastric bypass. I talked to her personally and she was very nice. I found it sickening that she had been treated this way.

There is another woman that he tried to get to have sex with him several years ago before she had gastric bypass. She said she weighed over 250 and she said "NO". He got mad and he told her she was only good to "F" . Again, a very nice woman who didn't deserve to be treated this way.

Another lady that just got divorced. Within weeks he came by to see her (maybe he reads the paper?). He invited her to the station, but she declined. He also told her he had removed someones gallbladder and they didn't know it. Also that he worked on a helicopter.

A man is suing him, court date in Oct 2009 in Bibb county. He joined the hunting club because he took their money and when they came to hunt he refused to let them and took their property.
Those are just a few I found, no telling how many more. He must watch the papers to see who is getting divorced so he can see what he can get and possibly heavier ladies so he can then say, "Please, look at her.. I wouldn't touch her."

Needless to say my kids don't have a camper. In fact I found out that I had ammo missing and it was recovered where he was staying. I supposedly gave it to him. yeah, right.
My son left his shells in the truck and when they were recovered they were half gone.

He told me he had women that stalked him and he had trouble with women. HMMMM, can't imagine why, I am sure they wanted something back that he stole from them.

Some of those he works with say that you have to take EVERYTHING he says with a grain of salt and he is not a good enough EMT to work on a helicopter.

I feel sorry for his 2nd wife. She is a pretty woman and a realtor. He claimed she made a lot of money when the real estate was doing good a couple of years ago. I am not sure why he was cheating on her. I imagine that her and her son went through 6 years of HELL. He told everyone she was crazy and slept around. I don't believe she slept around. The only reason I think she is crazy is because she stayed with him for so long. But I have been there myself with my ex... so I must be crazy too. LOL

There are others. People in town talk about them but some don't tell names. They say that anyone that gets involved with him gets burned in some way or another.

I know there is a black sheep in every herd. I just know I wouldn't want him in my area responding to 911 calls when he is out back with pants down and no telling where his hands have been, then responding to help someone that may be in an accident. I do feel sorry for his coworkers as well.